kidi_kiut

well the daughter, 25 years old, a german citizen, is planning to marry a turkish man, her boyfriend, not a muslim one. The father took her passport and return the flight ticker and left her with therelatives in Turkey. The boyfriend report it to the police in germany, when the father came back to german, he got caught.

What a world!

i dont know about you, but regardless to islamic law, the father has rights to marry his daughter to a man with his permission. I know according to german law, the father isnt allowed to do so because the girl is a 25 year old woman and a german citizen who has her own life to decide.

well, that's what happend when u live in a free country, with no respect in parents and parenthood and got a free mind and thought of their own. no wonder they have  a crazy world!

i mean i agree that the woman has her own right to choose who she feels comfortable with to live in the future and especially when it's based on love. But i also agree that parents still also got a right to rule his daughter, which i'm absolutely sure that he is expecting that his girl to lead her life in happiness and doing the right thing in her life. He's still responsible on how she reacts in life, he's responsible on her sins, and the future of her, whether she s going to hell or heaven.

we all will agree that children is a manifestation of investment in parent's future. So, yeah, they are responsible for their investment, so they have rights, especially the father.

though i find the best solution is communicating with his daughter, to make her understand that her choice of life is her responsibilities, and she has to face the consequenses of her choice. And it's all about hell or heaven, not in this world but after death.

when the daughter/son is educated in western style and basically not focusing in faith as his/her guide in life, you have to be careful in the future. Especially when u cant control their life and how they think.

Well, that's what happen when u r not very careful in educating ur kids.

What i learn is, educating your children is an investment. You have to be careful with your investment. Basic education is emphasizing our faith, our religion, as a guidance of our life as to lead our life. Other method to educate your children is imitating our rasul educate his daughter, fatimah, and his wives, and his best friends.

as using the modern style, is only one method, u just cant leave our own original example of our rasul habits lead his life. He 's our rule!!! dont foget it!

and i have to go home in couple of mins .. i should do my prayer! damn! there is a train to catch! run run!

kidi_kiut

just now seeing  from TV, about tomato festival in spain. It was a ritual that has been held since 1940. What a festival! lots of people, crowded ... throwing tomato to others .. wasting tomato, being ungrateful!

though i found it interested, still it was something unuseful to do, dont u think??

there are people in the world who cant eat coz they dont have money for eating. N i think tomato is unaffordable for them too. So yeah .. they are not being empathy to others, not thinking how their action actually if it wasnt done can help and affect people in other side of the world.

hmmmm ...

but spain is beautiful country! lol

kidi_kiut

ramadhan is almost coming ... we had this tradition that we r having lunch or dinner together before we face ramadhan. Especially since we  wont have lunch together again for about a month.

So, just now, we'r all invited to go to dcost atrium to have lunch. Well i almost decided not to go. i mean i was like what the hell, better i go than people say things unright. I dont care if they dont like me. I really dont care, coz i dont cause lost for them, unless i have. Well if i had, i m sorry then.

well, at least i got a friend go there, and had reason to be late. i was walking with one of my boss, pak joko, from my office to atrium. It was ok. I mean hearing his stories, his opinions about things. So yeah it was ok. Though i got mad bcoz we'r late and so late. Geez, chill out! i dont need that, i can pay by my self my own lunch. Well, i was saved because there's a crowd mas gigi who also come late. N miss JJ was freaking out when we got there. Damn it u woman! dont be such a bitch! lol ...

i know i wasnt supposed to say that, but i dont give a damn. Lol ... bad words before ramadhan ... and it's fun! hahaha ...

though i wasnt full and enjoy that much the treat but alhamdulillah .. it was ok! haha it's good actually .. and forgot for what i said about the bitch word, and hatred feeling, and bad emotion! coz i was just freaking out! and in a sensitive emotion! and a very moody me!

well .. it's three days before ramadhan. and it's gonna be fun! i mean we have this courses for reading qur'an, helping friends who rnt really good in reciting qur'an. It's gonna be fun!! i'm sure about that .. well i dunno about fahad, maybe he's in torture for not having fun in ramadhan!! hahaha lol .. i wish i could tease him about it. Well, i think i email him. He was so busy, probably with work and his study. He never tell me anything detail lately. Especially about the fun that he had when he met the girl ... i forgot which one

well kinda miss talking to him, talking to him is entertaining ... and kill my boredom ..

kidi_kiut

sometimes i was so sad, that i worked so hard but people just dont appericiate as i expected. I mean they say how nice my job is, but they dont use the result of what i worked so hard. It surely sucks!

like i've wasted my time, supposed that i did servicing my time for my husband and enjoying my rest, but i was stucked in front of my comp and do the best i can to have the best result that my boss expected to, but it ended up that he didnt use it at all.

well imagining how hard my work was, like almost 20 hours no probably more, coz i spent my 3 days, on weekend just to finish it. Hmmm .. geuss i know now how he treats and appriciate me. it was like a punch!! like twice! he did that to me!

i just wish it's only a feeling ... but hmm husnuzon is what i should do. N dont even try to cry in!!!! gambatte!

hmm .. last saturday, when i downloaded the movie title made of honor, it s already finished. I just wish i can remove it and it happened that the movie file is removed. It was like what happend to my brother's computer ... but it was avg's, and it was exe. i should ask my brother whether the file can be downloaded. Coz i use it and then i rename the
 file into rar.

well, hope this one (my downloading now) worked. So, i can see the movie. I've watched the sex and the city 2008. It was good, touchy one! but it was a life that is beyond my world. It was a very newyork's movie.

But i'm crazy about the line, asking why you decide to go to newyork?? louise said "to fall in love!"

i luv it!!!

well, the object of falling in love surely various, not only a person or people, but can be a job that we work, activities that we like and everything in life that we can fall in love

and i wish i can fall in love with everything in my life that i can have my life more ncolorfull